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After two years of struggling to get and stay pregnant, Zanna Roberts Rassi’s doctor said to her, “Congratulations, you’re pregnant. Not just a little pregnant, but like really pregnant.” And for anyone who’s been there, you know what that means: Twins.

“I told my husband [Milk Studios founder Mazdack] Rassi and he just burst out laughing and said, brilliant.”

And just like that, two new projects were added to the Rassi portfolio. The fashion polymath is already an editor at Marie Claire, a stylist (clients include True Religion and Pantene), a correspondent for E! News and a Project Runway regular.

She’s also funny, British and adorable, like a woodland sprite who chose Manhattan’s Chelsea neighborhood, as her habitat and a style that’s more sleek with a hint of rock-n-roll than ethereal bohemian (though we’re sure she could pull that off, too). Next week we’ll share Zanna’s fertility trials and tribulations – there were plenty. But first: A peek into life as a professional city mom with 4-month-old twins.

What She Does All Day

Fashion editor, TV fashion correspondent and stylist. One day I’m on a campaign shoot for a fashion client the next interviewing celebs or designers for E! News the next on the Today show talking fashion tips then to a brainstorming meeting at Marie Claire. Never the same day twice.

The Beginning

My parents were in NY when the twins were born. They waved us off to the hospital at 5am for the planned C-section. We floated around on cloud nine for the three weeks afterwards.

Double Vision… Twice!

We are fortunate enough to have a place out of the city – a very old cottage and garden in New Jersey that reminds me of where I was born: Manchester, UK. But this means we had to buy four of everything. Four cribs, four bouncy chairs, two double strollers and you get the picture! Finding bargains is essential – like the $100 cribs from Ikea!

I’ve Got This Figured Out

With twins, you have to have systems and schedules. Demand feeding would be a disaster. We would never sleep or eat. Its about always having the next step lined up. The swaddle flat and ready to go when they are ready to go down, the milk warm for straight after the bath so they don’t scream the house down, the diaper bag set at all times, bedding and laundry done once a day so nothing piles up. A place for everything and everything in its place. You can’t drop a beat. And when they’re sleeping, you have to prep for the next thing!

On Names

Rumi, after the Persian poet, my husband is of Persian descent. Juno is ancient Greek goddess. The mother of all gods. Wow, they have some lofty names to live up to!

Mini Workouts

The only way I can help from falling asleep some afternoons is by lifting Rumi over my head. She weighs nearly 10lbs – I figure twenty of those along with daily carrying means I should get some bicep situation happening!

Best Buy

The amazing double stroller the Bugaboo Donkey with an Andy Warhol floral print. It’s fashionable and functional.

Dressing The Bump

I began pregnancy with a personal challenge of not wearing leggings and T-shirts every day. I began #stylethebump on Instagram, this being the way I would stop myself from being lazy! My key is to still dress like yourself. (You dont have to look like a giant baby just because you’re having one!) For me that was a little rock’n’roll in the mix. Leather J Brand leggings were my lifesaver. Invest in one key piece.

Magic Ingredient

We have full time help, Karen. She’s been there since day 4. Our sweet, smart saviour! Since I went back to work a few weeks later, she has been imperative. I respect stay at home mums (like my mother was) more than you can imagine – it’s harder in a different way than working all day. And hands-off Karen anyone reading this!

Travel Necessity

I keep a very organized diaper bag. But it’s not a diaper bag, it’s a fabulous Tumi backpack with a thousand pockets.

The Perfect Moment

It’s Sunday at 8am in our house in New Jersey. The four of us lay in bed. Rassi is snoozing and Juno is sleeping on his chest. I’m nursing Rumi. My mum and dad are cooking up breakfast downstairs whilst “baby symphony” plays in the background. It was magic. I cried!

On Nursing

I couldn’t produce enough for two, so I supplemented with formula from the beginning. I think of breast milk as medicine. I pumped four times a day. Initially, nursing two babies at once, I got the hang of it, it’s like holding two footballs. I don’t know how anyone does it when they’re bigger!

On Pumping

I’ve pumped on set, in the back of an RV, in public toilets. One special day I was in the bathroom at Milk Studios shooting whilst on a conference call, texting my nanny, and looked in the mirror and burst out laughing. Multitasking at its finest.

* A Tip! *

If they won’t latch, wet the bottom of their nose with milk, and they’ll tip they their head up and then you can pop the nipple in!

#Momfail

I missed a doctor’s appointment and I felt so, so guilty.

On Future Rassis

We have a few on ice because we did IVF. That’s the most miraculous thing. They’re breathing, eating, smiling beings after three months on ice! I can’t get my head around that. Such a miracle.

3 Hours To Yourself

I’d catch up with family on the phone, and go sit in a park and drink rose with girlfriends!

A Night With Your Man

It’s our 5-year wedding anniversary, and I’m surprising him with a trip uptown to stay at the Carlyle. I plan to drink champagne, chat like adults with no agenda, and sleep. For us, not getting on a plane is such a luxury!

Can’t Buy Enough

For the girls, Earth Mama Angel Baby oil and Nununu stars and stripes collection. For me, Blueprint green juice is amazing when you don’t have time to do something good for yourself. And Lansinoh nipple cream. My friend Mariana brought it to the hospital for me – life saver.

New Obsession

Rather than trawling boutiques for the coolest little-people things, I hop on Mini Style and find the most unique clothes, accessories, and toys. Its a one-stop shop for buying gifts. Crushing right now on the new Mini X Thief & Bandit collaboration.

On Becoming Her Mother

She’s creeping in. I hear her voice in mine. Morals, manners, family values… I hear it when I talk to Rassi about the girls.

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saturdays Ellen Schmidt
Lives: Washington Heights, otherwise known as “Upstate Manhattan”
Family:
Husband Jason and our daughters Amelia (“Millie”, 5) and Vivian (3)
Spends her days: I work from home as a freelance writer, social media consultant, and blogger at Baby Meets City
Secret obsession: Reviewing every NYC-based children’s book ever written (the famous and the undiscovered!)

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8am:

My little gals are wide awake and ready to start the day (we got lucky, they’re pretty good at sleeping in on the weekends)! That being said, I’m still tired and have been since 2009. I turn on Doc McStuffins and steal 15 more minutes of sleep.

8:15am:

Go in search of coffee. Luckily we have beans from my new favorite java roaster, Driftaway Coffee in Brooklyn. I like to make a big breakfast on one weekend morning, and it’s usually on Saturday. Pancakes (raspberr-wee pancakes from Weelicious are always a hit), eggs, bacon, and fruit… yummy!

9:00am:

Breakfast. Second cup of coffee.

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10:00am:

Ignore breakfast dishes and volunteer my husband to help the girls get dressed. Hilarity ensues, and we end up changing a second time. Fortunately (or not), I have two girly-girls on my hands, so they’re more than happy to change into another outfit.

11:00am:

We are big fans of the American Museum of Natural History, and it’s an easy subway ride from our neighborhood. We head down on the A train for a date with the big blue whale and a few dinosaurs.

1:00pm:

We exit just in time for lunch and head around the corner to one of our favorite places for a cheeseburger, Shake Shack. The girls like their chicken dog and french fries, of course. And while it’s not the healthiest meal out there, sometimes a parent’s gotta do what a parent’s gotta do. Or something like that.

2:00pm:

Central Park is one of our favorite locations in the city, and we especially like the Diana Ross Playground at 81st and Central Park West. Mommy is not a huge fan of the extremely high 1970s sliding board but tries to remain calm as the girls zip down happily.

3:00pm:

After telling Millie and Vivian it’s time to go at least three times, we finally leave the playground and head home.

3:45pm:

Home feels nice after being gone several hours. The girls play (and only argue a little bit) in the new teepee they received for Christmas, and I sit down at the computer to check email.

4:30pm:

My husband has a great idea: movie night! The four of us pile into our bed and watch a favorite film, The Wizard of Oz (for some strange reason, my children are not afraid of the Wicked Witch). Everyone is content and all is right with the world.

6:00pm:

Dinner is something light and easy, like pesto pasta from Farmigo (I’m a community organizer for my neighborhood).

7:15pm:

Mommy pours a glass of wine and the three “Bs” routine begins… bath, books, and bedtime!

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There are people who are masters at covering up their flaws and making small talk, all while making it look like their life is all rainbows and unicorns. Amanda Chantal Bacon is not one of those people. The successful entrepreneur (her wellness mixology biz Moon Juice has three LA locations and a cult following) and single mom is real – which is especially refreshing at a time when we’re all guilty of projecting an Insta-perfect life.

Amanda has a 3.5-year-old son, Rohan, whom she co-parents with her ex: “I have been a single mom since the first couple of months after Rohan was born. It’s been a ride. There have been some dark, grim moments. I learned early on what it feels like to be in absolute hell with the person you are raising your child with – hopefully we’ll never go there again.”

In addition to running Moon Juice, Amanda’s writing two books, negotiating business deals, pitching a TV show, and raising Rohan without a nanny (!!) all while maintaining that perfect glow, makeup-free. How does she do it? Green juice, diet, and Kundalini yoga. Seriously.

So it’s no surprise that her booming holistic lifestyle business focuses on high-powered natural remedies that aim to help other women (and hey, men too!) power their lives with the kind of tools she’s mastered.

Read on for nutrition tips, the ultimate new mom affirmations, and so much more from an inspiring woman who has more depth, perseverance, and humility than we even thought possible. Meet Amanda Chantal Bacon.

Why Moon Juice?

I worked in the restaurant biz for years and loved it. I’m a total kitchen junkie, but I also knew I wanted to have a baby. I didn’t have anyone to have a baby with at the time, but a baby felt close by, and restaurant work isn’t really conducive to that. The idea of Moon Juice just came to me – it was what I personally wanted to put in my body, I liked the idea of helping people and the earth, and it was something I could do with a baby.

The Anti-Juice Cleanse

We have a holistic approach to juicing and raw foods – we are the antithesis of juice cleansing. This is a lifestyle of being good to yourself and ingesting the healthiest, most nourishing sustenance.

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Her Deal With Juice

I grew up in downtown Manhattan and frequented Healthy Chelsea, which closed in the 80s. It all started with carrot juice, then I started exploring green juice and making my own – I’ve been incorporating it into my daily life for the last 10 years.

Relief!

When I was 4, I was having a lot of health issues – difficulty breathing and sleeping, coughing so hard I would throw up. Western medicine couldn’t figure out what was wrong (one doctor suggested we move to Florida?!), and I suffered for over 3 years. While in a health food store with my mom one day, an Ayurvedic doctor heard my cough and approached my mom: He told her to eliminate sugar, wheat, and dairy from my diet. She did, and I was well within days. I learned right then that the food you eat directly affects how you feel. I was 8.

The New Normal

I quickly realized what I could and couldn’t eat at friends’ houses and restaurants – more no’s than yes’s. I didn’t want to miss out on foods and flavors, so I started experimenting, and have been doing so ever since. I’m not a doctor, but I know food, and I know how to resolve a lot of health issues with diet without making mealtime an unpleasant experience.

Jump Start

If you want to get healthy, I suggest a lot of raw fats and high-enzyme foods (safe for pregnant and nursing moms too):

1. Give yourself a break from sugar, wheat, dairy, alcohol, and coffee (green tea and matcha are great if you need to get your caffeine on). Not forever – just a break. 2. Start drinking unsweetened green juice every day, multiple times if you can. 3. Incorporate fermented foods (cultured vegetables, coconut yogurt, coconut kefir), all of which contain probiotics. 4. Blend adaptogens (Maca, Cordyceps, and Reishi) into nutmilk (hazelnut, almond, cashew, etc) – you will feel a drastic difference in mood and brain power. 5. I’m a huge proponent of pearl powder – add it to a warm drink and then watch your skin glow.

In Her Fridge

Tons of green juice, big vats of nuts, cultured vegetables, fresh seaweed, chia pudding, coconut yogurt, various nut cheeses, and there’s always a raw chocolate dessert. We have chocolate cake for breakfast on the regular!

How She Does It

I learned to stop putting more on my plate than is humanly possibly to handle. Plus, I have great tools: 1. My diet and lifestyle 2. Kundalini yoga and meditation: I’m not one of these people that has 90 minutes a day but, I have a practice that takes me 12 minutes in the morning that completely changes my world. Without those 2 things, everything comes crashing down.

The Early Days

I never had a moses basket or a crib – Rohan slept with me. His dad was wonderful with him, but he nursed on demand the first 2 years of his life, so I couldn’t go very far. My biggest piece of advice is: Just know everything will work itself out. I did use a Moby Wrap, which was great because it kept him close, so I could regulate his temperature and heartbeat with my own. He nursed, slept, and hung out there the first 4-5 months – I didn’t have a stroller until he was 8 months old.

The Key

I was blessed with 2 things: my tits and what I choose to fill them with. You can calm your child down by feeding him alkaline breast milk full of minerals.

Au Natural

Kundalini yoga will literally change your face. I started 5 years ago. It detoxes your subconscious, which shows up on your face. Wrinkles, scowls, smirks, deep lines, and even “bitch face” can be replaced with a look of relaxation and contentment. I’ve experienced this myself. And I don’t wear makeup: It’s my story and I’m sticking to it. I’m next to women in print who are all polished and camera-ready, but that’s not me. People are down with it.

Ugh!

Waste and thoughtlessness, especially in the kitchen, makes me upset – throwing out perfectly good food because you aren’t being conscious about it. You don’t want to eat that apple as-is? Dehydrate it, make apple sauce!

Dating

I’ve had some good times! I’m very lucky that Rohan and his dad have such a great bond. So yeah, I find a couple moments here and there to have fun. But all post-nursing – those first 2 years, no way!

#Momfail

Anything most people would consider a “fail”, I’ve already done it: He’s fallen numerous times, I’m not with his dad… but I’m not a failure! We just keep moving along. When you feel like you have already cruised through the BIGGEST fails, you have a certain amount of freedom when you’re not living that perfect story – I let go of that so early in motherhood.

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Baby’s out (welcome little guy!) and your body is yours again. Um, not so fast. While everyone’s postpartum experience is different, most moms agree it takes a while to feel at home in your own skin again. We asked Philly-based ObGyn Marisa Rose (and mom of two) to walk us through some of the most common “surprises” new moms face as it relates to their physical being post-baby. 1

Woah, Breastfeeding

It’s no surprise that most of us think breastfeeding is totally natural and will just happen. But according to Rose (and most of our mom friends), it takes a lot of hard work to make it feel easy. She considers everything from “my baby won’t latch” to “I’m engorged” to be normal responses in the first few days and weeks after birth.

Rose counsels her patients to start thinking about their breastfeeding plan during the 3rd trimester. Line up a lactation consultant, pick out a pump, and remain open-minded about what success means. Mixing in formula is not a sign of failure – it can take up to a month to get into a successful pattern of breastfeeding.

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Desperately Seeking A Libido

You just don’t want to do it. Rose understands, and she’s blaming your hormones. While breastfeeding, your estrogen drops and the decrease in hormones is responsible for everything from vaginal dryness (yes we just said that – sorry) to your lack of interest in doing the deed.

She also concedes that when your “breastaurant” is open 24/7, it’s hard to be open to much else, especially sex. Her Rx? Give yourself some time. Once your hormones start to get back into the swing of things (a good sign is you’re getting your period again), you should feel more up to it.

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Adult Diapers?!

Remember when a sneeze was just a sneeze? These days a sneeze can also mean a dribble in your panties – but don’t go buying Depends just yet. Rose assured us that most pelvic floor issues should clear up by the time your little guy is six months to a year (if it’s not getting better, be sure to tell your doctor).

She suggests regular Kegel exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor. And if you’re wondering if you’re isolating the right muscle when doing said exercise, Rose says it should feel just like it does when you’re peeing and stop yourself mid-stream. She also recommends keeping a diary, so you can start to see the pattern of when you’re having, um, accidents and possibly isolate the culprit (like multiple cups of coffee without a bathroom break).

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Holy Hair Loss

Don’t lose sleep over losing your hair. According to Rose, you’re not crazy, it happens. Blame it on the hormones again. You don’t lose any hair while pregnant (hence the glorious magical tresses), but you make up for it on the flipside. Once your body stabilizes, it will stop. Until then, invest in a drain cover for your shower. 5

TMI But Is My Tush Falling Out, Too?

And now for the really unpleasant stuff: Some women experience blood and discomfort with bowel movements postpartum. Rose said that rectal fissures (which are small tears on the anus or rectum and different from hemorrhoids) will usually heal on their own. Our mom friends swear by regular sitz baths to help with the pain and healing. And be sure to drink buckets of water, a diet rich in fiber, and don’t delay when the urge to poop comes on. But according to Rose, if there is persistent bleeding, you should get it evaluated.

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