Soleil Moon Frye

If you were a child of the 80s, you know her as Punky Brewster. It’s not often you see a child star disappear from the limelight and emerge on a new path of total success, but Soleil Moon Frye did just that.

Not only is she a totally hands-on mom of three (Poet, 8.5; Jagger, 6; and Lyric, 5 months), but she’s also a badass entrepreneur with an empire of kid-friendly companies. There’s Moonfrye, an app and website dedicated to getting crafty with littles – and her DIY projects are actually easy and fun (for you too, we swear). She’s the host of Home Made Simple on the OWN network, author of Let’s Get This Party Started, co-owner of eco apparel shop The Little Seed, Today Show contributor, a Target Mommy Ambassador, and she just launched PSXO – a chic line of party decor that also gives back, so for each party box you purchase, you’re “bringing a little celebration to someone in need.”

Amongst all that, she still found time to chat with us about how she stumbled on her kids’ unusual names, her favorite art projects and the guilty pleasure her husband does not approve of.

And in case you’re feeling nostalgic, Punky Brewster lives on (thank you, YouTube).

DIY Master

The girls and I have so much fun getting crafty. Some of our favorite DIY projects are making stress balls, concocting slimey goo and anything to do with collaging. We went through a homemade crayons phase – you take all the little crayon nubs around the house, break them into little pieces, put them in silicone molds (mix and match colors) and bake at 300 degrees for 10 minutes.

Start ‘Em Young

My earliest memories are of baking with my mom, who was a chef – I remember sitting on the counter stirring batter. I started doing fun projects with my kids as soon as they could sit up – we would freeze toys in ice trays for sensory experiments. When they were a bit older, we would blindfold each other and do taste tests of different fun flavors.

Parenting Advice

You’re going to have these incredible moments as a parent where you feel great and empowered and like you’re doing it right. Embrace those moments because the next day, you may feel like you’re doing it all wrong.

Ahem, Yes, It’s True

Early on, people say, cherish the moment because it goes by so quickly, and at first, I was like, Really?! It’s all so new and overwhelming and sure doesn’t seem to be flying by. But turns out, it really is true – I can’t believe Poet is going to be nine. It goes even faster with the second, and it’s flying by with the third.

On The Go

When we aren’t at home, you’ll find us at the beach in Venice, strolling along Abbot Kinney, hitting up the farmers market or getting mom-daughter mani-pedis. On a rainy day, the movies or a museum. And scavenger hunts – we love scavenger hunts!

The Name Game

All of our kids named themselves in a way. Poet was a name we always loved, and on Father’s Day before she was born, we were walking around and said, What should we name her? And we looked up and saw a sign that said poet. We both love the Edgar Allan Poe poem “A Dream Within a Dream”, so we call her Poe for short.

Jagger had a seriously strong kick in my belly, and we felt like she needed a powerful name. We didn’t know if it was a girl or boy, and this worked for either.

With Lyric we were talking about names and saw a sign that said lyric and absolutely loved the name. And we kept seeing signs that said lyric throughout the pregnancy, so it just felt right.

Melt

I love those moments when we’re all together as a family. Lately it’s been group ooohing and ahhhing over baby Lyric (aka honeybunny, sweetie pie and lovebug). We have a lot of impromptu dance parties and cozy snuggles with everyone in our bed. It’s important not to take yourself too seriously.

#Momfail

I’ve had so many of them, even in the last three weeks. I was wearing ridiculous fancy heels at the girls’ school and fell going up a hill, did a couple of flips in front of the whole school! My girls were so sweet, but I was mortified.

Guilty Pleasure

I love indulging in a really bad gossip magazine once in a while. My husband gets on me, but I’m allowed if I’m going on an airplane.

A Night Out

The last time I was out past 1am was at the J/P HRO gala, a charity that is very close to my heart. It was an incredible celebration – people were in town from Haiti and a good time was had by all, including me, and I was really pregnant!

Who Knew?!

I love playing basketball. I used to play on an entertainment league basketball team – all 4’11” of me. I also used to spend summers rollerblading on the Venice boardwalk. I was one of those people!

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saturdays Katerina Williams
Lives:Tribeca during the week, East Hampton on the weekends
Family: Husband Robert, sons Sebastian (2) and Louk (1 month)
You might know: Her amazing new baby boutique Lullanest in East Hampton (a Manhattan shop is in the works)
Secret obsession: Collecting pennies. Finding them face up truly is good luck! I have a piggy bank (shaped like a pig of course) full of the pennies I’ve found through the years.

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6:30am:

“Mama Up!” Sebastian is ready to take on the day!

6:35am:

We have an intense 5 minute communication (in toddler talk) about finding something he’s termed “dodo”. After presenting numerous items to Sebastian that he assured me were not dodo, I try a toy race car. Success!

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7:00am:

With dodo in hand, we eat fruit and our beloved YoKids yogurt for breakfast as we assemble our Janod alphabet wood puzzle.

7:30am:

I send an email to the Lullanest team confirming our plan for the day, which always includes more training on our products.

9:30am:

September in the Hamptons is my favorite time of year. We pack bags for a day at the orchards.

10:00am:

We stroll through the apple orchards (Sebastian runs!) and stop for fresh treats in the form of cider and pastries from the local farms.

12:30pm:

Picnic lunch. The Weelicious Easy Chicken Nugget recipe is loved by all.

1pm:

Home for Sebastian’s nap, which is also an ideal time for Mama’s Lullanest product research and team meeting.

3pm:

We’re off to the “pak” (park) for some “lulla bell” (swinging). Baba (daddy) is the preferred swing pusher.

4pm:

The Children’s Museum of the East End in Bridgehampton, where serious play vegetable sorting and lego building ensue.

5:30pm:

Dinner at LT Burger in Sag Harbor.

6:30pm:

Sebastian races to the tub for bath time with the duckies.

7:30pm:

We sit together and read books which currently include “I’m a Big Brother” and “My New Baby”.

8:30pm:

Sebastian is sound asleep (“dodo” by his side), and friends of ours arrive for some drinks and dinner by the pool.

10pm:

Check on baby, shut the lights, and Mama down!

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On Our Radar September 19, 2014

radar WHO: Sick kids who need to stay hydrated and non-sickies who could use added nutrition.
WHAT: Ella’s Kitchen organic electrolyte drinks are full of all natural ingredients (coconut water, fruit and veggie purees) and don’t have any of the bad stuff (artificial flavors, colors, or additives).
WHEN: Stock up before you actually need it.
WHERE: target.com

WHO: Parents and caregivers packing little lunches on the regular.
WHAT: Zoli’s new vaccum-insulated food containers keep soup hot and yogurt cold, plus the cheerful colors just make you feel happy.
WHEN: Before soup season is upon us.
WHERE: zolibaby.com

WHO: Parents of paci-obsessed littles.
WHAT: Chewbeads new paci clips are not only cuter than the other options out there but they also glow in the dark, making them easy to find at all times.
WHEN: Before you lose another one.
WHERE: chewbeads.com

WHO: Owners of downright filthy strollers and car seats.
WHAT: BuggyLOVE is a line of organic cleaning products that safely rid your gear of muck.
WHEN: Before it becomes a health hazard.
WHERE: buggylove.com

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I’m a FTM, EBF my 8-week LO (actually NAK at the moment) and have a semi-embarrassing question: LAM is a real thing, right (not an OWT)? Because we DTD once, and I’m worried I may be PG again already. Have not POAS. It would be impossible to get a BFP, right? RIGHT?! WM on ML freaking out here. TIA.

Welcome to the MMB (mommy message board). Not only must you learn to interpret the unique cries of your baby, but those of your fellow mamas. And they also speak in code. Keep handy this mile-long list of acronyms to translate the beautiful craziness that is the MMB. While it can be a wealth of knowledge, consider yourself warned, it’s a serious rabbit hole.

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attachment parenting

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birth control (what reading a mommy board will drive you to)

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big fat negative (on the stick)

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big fat positive (on the stick)

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breast milk (we gotcha there, huh?)

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controlled crying (a sleep method)

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cloth diaper

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cry it out (aka hell on earth)

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dairy allergy

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dear daughter

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dear husband

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dear son

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did the deed (isn’t “sex” just as easy to spell?)

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exclusively breastfeeding

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expressed breast milk

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elimination communication (we had to wiki that one too)

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formula feeding

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first time mom

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Lactational Amenorrhea Method (natural birth control while breastfeeding)

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little one

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miscarriage

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maternity leave

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mommy message board

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nursing at keyboard

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old wives tale

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pregnant

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pee on a stick

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postpartum depression

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Resources for Infant Educarers (the parenting method all the LA moms follow)

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stay at home mom

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thanks in advance (the universal sign-off on the MMB)

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trying to conceive

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vaginal birth after cesarean

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work at home mom

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working mom

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what you’ll say after reading this list

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