The Nanny Cheat $heet

You’ve already got the ins-and-outs of hiring a nanny – and maybe you already have one you adore. Then why – even when you lovelovelove her and you two talk about everything – can conversations about money feel so awkward? It’s usually because you don’t have a point of reference, says Erica Komisar, co-founder of Nannies Who Know, which trains and places nannies in New York. Her ballpark figures for hourly rates, raises and bonuses will help – and please, add your rules of thumb in the comments!

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A few things to
keep in mind:

Generosity will never go unnoticed.

There are a few things that make a difference to your nanny and don’t cost you a lot:
1. If you’re in NYC and commute via subway, share a monthly unlimited MetroCard – doubles its use and costs you nothing extra since you would purchase anyway.
2. Add them to your family mobile plan.
3. Ask what they like to eat and keep it stocked at your house, so they don’t have to buy/bring lunch.

Always negotiate these things in advance. It’s good for both parties to have clear expectations and ensures a healthy relationship long-term.

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The going rate

Prices are for NY, LA and SF. In other cities, rates will be less.
Hourly: $15 – $18 starting rate for one child; $18 – $21 for two.
Overnight: $50 – $75 flat rate from kids’ bedtime to wake up.
You’re late getting home: Same hourly rate, but round up. I.e. pay a full hour even if you’re just 15 late.
Comes on vacation with you: Additional $50 – $75 per night + all meals + regular rate for any days that fall on a weekend.
Birthday: $50 – $100 or the day off
Holiday gift/bonus: Small gift + 1 – 2 weeks pay as a bonus (depending on how happy you are with them).
Typical Raise after year 1: $1/hour
Typical Raise after year 2: $1/hour
Second child: Additional $3/hour

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michelle kohanzo

Michelle Kohanzo loves chaos. Case in point: She runs the show at Land of Nod and parents 4 (yes 4!) kids – Emily (16), Connor (13), Henry (10), and Everett (7).

She also loves sleep and fashion (equally), which can get her in a jam some days when she arrives at work in an outfit she’s “not feeling”. She found herself in such a situation the morning before our chat, and she had to make a mad dash for Madewell so she could get on with her day: “I am kind of obsessed with clothes, and I have to dress to my mood – if I don’t wear the right thing, I’m thrown off.”

It’s no surprise that the woman at the helm of everyone’s favorite source for pint-sized whimsy is quirky, warm, and super creative. Michelle’s been at LON for 15 years, which is basically since the beginning, and has worked in literally every department. The secret to her success? “I love that we are always trying new things. Sure, we’ve made some mistakes but we’re always innovative.”

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We got a peek at the new spring introductions – bedding, wall art, pillows, and bath items – inspired by three of our fav Little Golden Books – Saggy Baggy Elephant, Shy Little Kitten, and Tawny Scrawny Lion – and let’s just say it is to die.

The Chicagoan has been working on a seriously quirky new hobby – read on to learn what she’s up to – and why she’s the least likely to be called a “soccer mom” anytime soon. Meet Michelle!

Precious Sleep

I love sleep, so I sleep as late as possible, which is usually until 7:30am – and I’m out the door by 8am. We have someone who lives in, which helps get the kids off, so I only have to worry about myself. In those 30 minutes, I get dressed and drink as much coffee as possible, then hop in the car for an hour-long commute from our home in Barrington, Illinois, to the Chicago LON office.

Mother’s Helper

My daughter interned at LON this summer, and I quickly realized how much I love that time to myself in the car! She’s interested in pursuing a career in photography (well, for now – she is just 16), and I wanted her to see how much hard work goes into the “glamorous” creative side. She got to see those unglamorous parts (hauling equipment, packing up bags of product), and I was really proud of her – she held her own around a lot of different people and matured from the experience.

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I love to craft with the kids and am always on Pinterest looking for ideas. For Thanksgiving, we will make place cards out of construction paper, glue, glitter – I buy a lot of supplies to get the creativity going. I have no issue with mess and feel the more relaxed you can be with that kind of thing, the better. Recently, my little guy and I painted a wall in the house with acrylic paint – I just let him go crazy! I ended up covering it with wallpaper, but it was such a fun activity.

Have FUN

The way parents today incorporate toys and imagination into their home is different even from when my kids were little. It used to be that you threw everything in your kids room to hide it, but now people live with it harmoniously. A bright storage piece holds toys and allows grownups to live more playfully – a beige house is so boring! It’s a unique time in your life when kids are small, so you should celebrate that and feel comfortable in your home.

Top Dogs

You get a lot of mileage out of big wooden blocks and play tents or teepees because kids love having their own secret hideout within the home. They can be an enchanted forest, a hideout to read – the possibilities are endless.

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I let my kids dictate their own play, so I don’t get too involved, but I find that keeping things organized and to a minimum fosters creativity.

Clothes Make This Woman

I have to dress to my mood. Today, for example, I had on jeans, and I felt they looked sloppy with my shirt, and I wasn’t comfortable in my skin. So I went to Madewell and got a pair of faded blue boyfriend jeans and a gray tank top, which went with the jacket I was wearing. If you know me well enough, you know my mood based on what I’m wearing!

Playing Favorites

I am obsessed with the clothing line State. Beautiful Dreamers in Brooklyn is my favorite store in the whole world. And Ace & Jig is just so good.

Kid-Friendly House

Every room in our home is multi-functional, and we use every single inch of the house. There isn’t a single room we don’t go into every day – that’s important to me – I think you shouldn’t have a house that you don’t use. And with kids around, nothing should be so precious that you would be devastated if it was broken. I teach them to be respectful of our things, but kids are going to be kids.

Just A Phase

Every step of parenting is a phase. No matter how horrible they are acting or how much they say they hate you, it’s not about you as a parent. If you can remember that, you can get through it.

Hands On

I unwind by making things. Every night, I come home and cook dinner. I LOVE to feed my family. During the week it’s something easy like tacos, but on the weekend, I’ll make Julia Child’s beef bourguignon. And the last 3 or 4 months, I’ve been weaving wall hangings. It’s such a great way to decompress, and you can do it anywhere.

The Family That Travels Together…

We take a family vacation somewhere different every year. This past summer, we went to DisneyWorld, and the 6 of us were out for dinner. I had this moment of clarity where everyone just seemed so grown-up – we were having this amazing meal, where no one was fighting or whining or spilling anything, and I just realized how much I really enjoy spending time with these people that I made.

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I have no interest in my kids sporting activities – I rarely go to their games. My husband coaches and is so involved – he is appalled by me! It’s usually so cold outside that I can’t even pay attention to what’s going on in the soccer or football game.

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35 Kids Books You Must Own

The best part about books: the more the merrier!

We’ve curated a library of old and new classics that tick all the boxes:
1) Entertaining to your little one.
2) Fun to read for you.
3) Gorgeous enough to leave around the house or prop on a shelf as decor.

If you don’t own these, you should.

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moon

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good-night

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llama

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quiet

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oops

pout

bath

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animal-kisses

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hug

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dear-zoo

bed-book

yarn

wild

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goodnight

best

tails

pigasso

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moose

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10-min-til-bedtime

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The Ultimate Mini Art Studio

The best way to keep the whole family happy and entertained on an inside kind of day? Arts and crafts. (Truth: Coloring with crayons gives us inner peace. And if we’re coloring in a Just Add Color coloring book? That’s even better than… )

And so, we present, the inner workings of an art station that will inspire every toddler and parent to get creative.

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Art Table

If you’re crunched for extra space, the kitchen table is a perfectly good place to get your arts and crafts on. Tip: Put a kids placemat under the “canvas” just in case. And should the markers bleed through, a Magic Eraser works wonders on tables, as long as it’s not wood.

Land of Nod’s adjustable play table grows with your child. It’s low to the ground for toddlers, has add-on legs for bigger kids, and turns into a homework desk later on, so you’ll feel good about the investment.

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If you have a little nook, P’kolino’s Little Modern table and chairs has a streamlined design, hidden storage, and a flip top – one side’s a chalkboard, the other wood. Order it now, as its sold out everywhere and on backorder for good reason.

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Art Smock

Take cover. We prefer the long-sleeve art smock to keep shirt sleeves and elbows out of the action. For toddlers, go Jaq Jaq Bird; for older kids, AM PM Kids.

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Splash Mat

Place a splash mat underneath the crafting/kitchen table or go ahead and have at the project on the floor. Either way, the heavyweight vinyl covering keeps the damage to a minimum.

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Storage

Clear shoeboxes are the perfect storage containers for supplies – they limit how much stuff is in each box and allow everyone to see – and eventually read since we label ours – what’s inside the box.

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Finger Paints

We have two hands-on picks for finger painting: Wee Can Too all natural paints and Alex Toys’ Tots Finger paints in squeeze tubes.

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All-Purpose Paint

Crayola’s rainbow assortment does the trick on paper, cardboard, and wood. Plus, it’s washable.

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Crayons

The natural (made from beeswax and soy) thick crayons (easy for little hands to grasp) from Stockmar are truly a delight to draw with. We also keep a pack of Crayola Twistables in stock – the plastic casing keeps the stick from snapping in two.

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Markers

We like to keep it non-toxic and real with P’kolino’s eco-friendly markers made with food dye inks. But our kiddo’s favorites are the Do-A-Dot Rainbow marker set.

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Paint Brushes & Sponges

Extra wide handles make these first brushes and sponges easy to grasp.

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Scissors

Fiskars scissors are the choice of lefties, righties, and preschool teachers from coast to coast.

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Glue

We attack the sticky stuff in two different ways. If the project is supervised, we squirt some Elmer’s glue into a cup and use Q-tips to spread. If the project is only kind-of supervised, we stick with Elmer’s purple glue sticks. (Note: the purple dries clear, but helps your little see where they are putting it.)

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Paper Paper

Todd Oldham’s partnership with Target – Kid Made Modern – has produced an amazing array of craft project kits for older kids (file this knowledge away for when your kids are ages 5 and up). But we are equally as enamored with his mixed paper and construction zone paper pad collections. The assortment and price cannot be beat.

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Tissue Paper

Paper flowers, collage, decoupage, stained glass, paper mache – tissue paper is the Beyonce of art supplies. It can do anything. P.S. Always keep the scraps.

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Easel Paper

Murals make amazing works of art you can hang on the wall. Use painter’s tape to attach easel paper to the floor and either trace their bodies or draw a cityscape and let them go crazy filling it in.

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Stickers

Go old school with Mrs. Grossman’s variety packs. Go new school with Melissa & Doug’s themed collections and stick pads.

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Feathers

Feathers are a must – they take every art project to the next level. Just skip the ones with pointy ends for young children.

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Stamps

A good stamp pad, a piece of white paper, and a whole bunch of stamps is how we get through the making dinner/witching hours. Make it educational with a set of ABC stamps.

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Googly Eyes

Really? Yes, you really need googly eyes.

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Pipe Cleaners

An essential building block of nursery school art projects, we like ours in bright colors.

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Yarn

We keep a few skeins of yarn on hand for self-portrait hair, jewelry making, and hand weaving.

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Pom Poms

Available in both regular and sparkly varieties, thank you very much.

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Wooden Beads

The more, the better. String them on yarn (nice necklace!), encircle a pipe cleaner (it’s a bracelet), glue them to a cardboard box (mission control board).

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Model Magic

Easier to clean up than Play-Doh and less of a hassle than regular clay, meet Crayola’s Model Magic.

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Glitter

If you’re really, really brave, go for the glitter! If mess gives you hives, skip it.

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If helping the kids get creative just isn’t in your genes, opt for an art project in a box from Eye Can Art, KiwiCrate, Seedling, P.S.XO, and Cooper & Kid.

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