cc_molly_sims_header_4cc_blog_spacer“He’s like a Christmas present that I get to open every morning,” says Molly Sims of her one-and-a-half-year-old son Brooks.
Lest you get the wrong idea, she also referred to him as a “nipple vampire” minutes earlier. Before Sims returned to work – filming episodes of The Carrie Diaries and as a guest star on TBS’ Men At Work, penning a “girl’s guide to everything” called The Everyday Supermodel for HarperCollins, designing maternity apparel (Molly Sims’ Stork & Babe in collaboration with Thyme Maternity), and updating mollysims.com (which is more magazine than blog) daily – she was tackling a far more challenging undertaking. Her hungry infant happened to be born with a tooth (!) making nursing excruciatingly frustrating. Smartly, Sims sought help for that issue – and for almost every parenting challenge since then. The result: an enviably supportive network, and one that’s open for us non-supermodels to tap in to, too. “The more I learn about parenting, the more I think you need a village around you.” A village, and a hefty supply of Medela Hydrogel nipple pads. “The ones you can put in the fridge – I loved those.”
cc_blog_spacercc_blog_tips_title_v1cc_blog_molly_sims_tips1I take Babies First Class and Jackie gives handouts and guidelines to follow. Sleep training, toilet training, solid foods and allergies… But also the developmental stuff. I know it’s work and that you have to be the disciplinarian, but you can take those boundaries and redirect them into fun. As Jackie would say, listen: You can say hi to your baby or you can say HIII-EEE!!!
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips2I tell all my pregnant girlfriends, get involved with your community. Ask around and find the best mommy and me class. I have one that’s more social and one that I really learn from. (Cricket’s note: Red Tricycle has a directory for many cities.)
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips3When everyone seems to be talking about something, it’s usually for a good reason. Like, Bringing up Bebe – it’s worth it. Or the Macaroni & Cheese series, which I love.
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips4When it comes to nursing, some of us are cows and some of us are goats; I was a goat — there’s milk, but only a little. I loved my lactation consultant Linda Hanna. Yes, she taught me tricks, but I love her because she made me feel good about myself. Definitely work with someone because the latching on is the hardest part.
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips5Jill Spivack at Sleepy Planet  helped me to sleep train my baby. The Seedlings Group offers support for sleep and lots of other parenting needs. (Cricket’s note: They offer phone consultations, too.)
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips6Find somewhere with ambience between 5 and 7pm and one that’s loud. For us it was Terroni’s. Sure, he wants to get out of the high chair 20 mins into dinner, but I come prepared. My diaper bags weighs 20 lbs, 15 pounds are cars. And crayons.
cc_blog_molly_sims_tips7My single girlfriends would make me laugh during the first year. I was like, “we had bilirubin,” and they’re like, is that an Indian dish? I told them my nipples look like they belong on a different animal. We all laugh about this stuff.

 

 

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Dana Avidan-Cohn
Weekdays: Scarsdale, NY
Weekends: Litchfield County, CT
Family: Dan, sons Nash, 3.5 and Carter, 23 months
You might know: Her excellent taste. She’s the InStyle Senior Market Editor & Digital Correspondent.
Secret obsession: YA fiction (It’s so entertaining!)


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7am

My older son Nash usually wakes up first and I hear the same thing every morning: “Moooommmy come and get me I’m awaaa—-aake.” I don’t budge.

7:05am

That usually wakes up baby C, and then Dan goes into their room and is greeted with mild wrong-parent-disappointment that quickly dissipates upon the promise of some outlandish but spectacular breakfast.

7:45am

Dan and the boys are on the couch watching SportsCenter.  Every dish in the kitchen has been used for breakfast. Every food product we have has been used for breakfast. The kitchen is a modern art exhibit of toppled furniture, yogurt graffiti, dish statues, and half-had beverages.

8:15am

I come downstairs well-rested and excited for the day. I give the boys kisses (which they half acknowledge amidst the sports highlights). I hi-five Dan for letting me sleep in and set about rebuilding the kitchen over some coffee and music.

9am

I realize that both kids are covered in remnants of breakfast so we decide swimming is the easiest way to tire them out and clean them off.

10am

They are out of the water and taking out the soccer goal to play some “Sock.” We have spent a lot of time and money on toys to keep them engaged but NOTHING has been better than a $40 pop up soccer goal.

12pm

We take them into town for some lunch. I love a sandwich shop lunch with kids because it’s low key and it doesn’t matter if they aren’t perfectly behaved. My boys split a wrap with chicken, avocado and honey mustard and two fresh juices.

12:30pm

There is an amazing local chocolate shop that makes everything you can imagine for kids. The glass case is covered in little fingerprints. Nash orders a dark chocolate screwdriver (they have a whole toolbox selection) and C wants the same. By the time we get back to the house, it’s melted all over them and they are asking if we can go back and get more.

1pm

The DOUBLE nap!!!! Dan and I lay out and read for 2 hours of peaceful heaven.

3pm

Grandparents offer to get the kids from their nap, so we go for a quick run and workout. Even when I am exhausted I always feel so much better afterwards. We make smoothies as a snack. This is one of their favorites:

  •          1 cup frozen blueberries
  •          Ice (optional)
  •          1 cup pomegranate juice
  •          2 tablespoons wheat germ
  •          1/4 cup almonds
  •          1 avocado, pitted and peeled

*Makes about 12 ounces, which could serve two little ones

4pm

We are back on the dock with both boys in Puddle Jumper Delux swimmies. We take them out on the stand-up paddleboard or in a canoe.

5pm

Dan takes out the fishing rod. If they catch something, they look at it and let it go. Nash thinks it’s the same fish every time — he calls him “BOBO” (who is a bass).

5:30pm

We make pizzas outside in a little outdoor wood oven and the boys help put on the cheese and sauce. They love baking and cooking.

7pm

After dinner they get a bath and put on pjs. Carter calls all of the pjs “yucky” and “gross” and only wants to wear something with a truck on it.

Then I let them pick out as many books as they want, and we read them all. They are finally tired. Dan and I divide and conquer and put them to bed. I have yet to stay awake while doing this.

8:30pm

Dan wakes me up and we go downstairs for dinner and drinks. Usually a cold rose for me and a martini for D. These weekends with them are the most fun and exhausting days I have ever had. Working full time makes the weekends very precious so I try to really soak up the chaos.

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On Our Radar: July 24, 2014

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WHO: Baby Lit’s new board books let you introduce the classics before she can even talk.
WHAT: Jane Austen and Shakespeare for the baby-set.
WHEN: Nothing says bedtime like Goodnight, Mr. Darcy.
WHERE: babylit.com

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WHO: HoneyBee Child SwingEase turns a regular old swing into a baby / toddler swing.
WHAT: The smart design also folds up so you can stash away in the diaper bag.
WHEN: 6-36 months, under 40 pounds.
WHERE: honeybeechild.com

WHO: Life In Play’s Organizer turns any handbag into a diaper bag.
WHAT: Thanks to Kickstarter, the days of having to buy a less-than-stylish diaper bag are numbered.
WHEN: Pre-order now, receive it in October.
WHERE: lifeinplaycompany.com

WHO: Polagram app allows you to order prints of photos/Instas, and they arrive super fast via the post office, so you can enjoy IRL.
WHAT: That’s. So. Meta.
WHEN: Past, present, and future become one.
WHERE: apple.com

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Step-By-Step Transition To A Big-Kid Bed

Everyone knows the cardinal rule of infant slumber – never (ever) wake a sleeping baby.

We’d like to propose an amendment: never (ever) rush the transition of that sleeping baby from their happy crib to a big-kid bed. One cannot overstate the value of a child who sleeps unstirred through the night.

How do you know when it’s time to say “buh-bye” to the crib?

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You need the crib for #2


Leave yourself plenty of time to make the transition before your new arrival makes an appearance. Too much change all at once (new sibling, new bed, new room) is never easy – no matter your age.


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Jailbreak!


If Junior is climbing his way out every night – it’s not safe to keep him behind bars any longer.

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More space, please.


While we’ve known littles who have slept in their crib until age 4, we also know not-so-littles who needed more room to spread out. You know your kid’s limbs best – trust your instincts.


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So, you’ve decided it’s time to transition. Now what?

If you purchased a convertible crib, you’re in luck. Simply convert to a toddler bed. Toddler beds use the same mattress and sheets as your crib. Most come with attachments that serve as a bed rail. All you need to add is a pillow.

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Toddler Pillows


Don’t go for extra fluffy – the smaller the better. Remember they’ve been resting their head flat on the mattress happily for quite some time.
See our picks >


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Toddler Bed Sheet Sets


Pre-packaged sets come with fitted and top sheets. Our recommendation: hold off on the top sheet until he’s got the sleeping in one place thing down. We spent the first few weeks detangling our sleeper from the unnecessary layer of fabric. See our picks >


If the crib doesn’t convert, how do you choose what’s next: a toddler bed or a twin/double?

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If space is an issue


consider a toddler bed. They’re close to the ground (in case of falls) and the abbreviated height makes purposeful departures
(i.e. midnight potty breaks) easier to accomplish. They also use the same size mattress as a crib, so there’s no need to add that to the tab. See our picks >


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However, if you have the space


to go big – do it. This will be your kiddo’s bed for the foreseeable future. For a regular bed (twin or double), you need a bed rail. Try and position the bed with one side against a wall – this will minimize sides your sleeper can slip off of. If the bed doesn’t work against a wall, you will need two rails. See our pick >


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we opted to not use rails


and lined the ground beside our kiddo’s twin bed with bean bags that we repurposed in the playroom after falling out of bed was no longer an issue.
And, of course you’ll need new sheets. Let your little help you pick the designs to get them excited about the change. Some of our favorites: Little Auggie, Mia & Finn, Dwell Studio, Unison Home, Biscuit Home.


- The Extras -

1. If you have stairs and haven’t gated them yet, now is the time. Munchkin, KidCo and Summer Infant are all reliable brands whose sites walk you through finding the right solution for your space.

2. Add a nightlight in the hallway and the bathroom, so independent littles can make their way to the bathroom in the dark. We’re drawn to these kitschy versions of a gummy bear or kitty cat. Or you could go all out (it doubles as a piece of art!) with Mr. Maria’s giant bunny.

3. Teach them when to stay in bed and when to rise with a nifty nightlight clock. It’s About Time, Nuk, KID’Sleep, Onaroo, and GoodNite Lite are all good options.

4. Don’t make any changes to their bedtime routine. Keep nightlight, sound machines, woobies, and rules consistent.

And hope for the best.

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