Short answers from Kourtney Kardashian

Kourtney Kardashian delivered her two children  (Mason, 4.5 and Penelope, almost 2) on TV and literally pulled them out of her womb.  And not because she wanted the tabloid chatter but because it was her moment to embrace her calling: motherhood. She may be part of America’s most in-the-limelight family, but Kourtney’s a badass hands-on mom who puts her kids first and foremost.

The reality-TV-icon is expecting her third child with long-term boyfriend Scott Disick in December, and she’s currently summering in Southampton with her family, where she opened a Dash pop-up shop and is shooting Kourtney & Khloé Take The Hamptons.

As her own family grows, so does the Kardashian business empire: Dash boutiques, Kardashian Kollection (a women’s clothing line for Sears), Kardashian Beauty, and our current favorite Kardashian Kids – a girls apparel line for Babies “R” Us. (The second collection just hit shelves, and a boys collection is in the works.)

We quizzed the glam but totally down-to-earth mom about fitting in quality family time with an insane schedule, the beauty products she can’t give up and the secret smoothie recipe that keeps her going.

Natural Selection

I am slowly changing my beauty products over to safer choices. I love organic coconut oil instead of lotion for my body, which I also use on the kids. I ditched deodorant and used nothing for a while but have now found Lavanila Healthy Deodorant, which is great. I make sure that our products for Kardashian Beauty are made of non-toxic ingredients – our list of banned substances is longer than the list at Whole Foods, which makes me feel really proud.

Well, Almost

There are some face products I won’t give up, so I can’t bring myself to read what’s in them – for all I know, they are totally safe. I use Creme de la Mer at least once a day, Dr Brandt eye creams twice a day and Erno Lazslo black soap.

Falling For Flats

My style evolves with fashion and trends, but I also love timeless silhouettes that work for my body. I don’t think body-con dresses will ever go out of style, thanks to Azzedine Alaia. They look good on almost every woman’s body – it’s just all about how they are styled. We do some amazing ones for Kardashian Kollection. I do live for a good flat shoe now that I have children.

Run, Kourtney, Run

My idea of what is “fit” has evolved. I am not into being super skinny anymore. We are an active family and we try to eat healthy rather than dieting. We eat lots of fresh, organic foods. We do eat out a lot, which makes things a little trickier. Moderation is key for me. I still LOVE to run, I just don’t make time. I really do need that 30 minutes a day to be alone, listen to music and run. I think I just got inspired to start again.

A Race Against Time

Boundaries are crucial for a working mom. My children are my priority and always come first, which allows everything else to fall into place. Weekends are off limits for working unless absolutely necessary because that’s my family time.  I live for our precious naps when we all snooze together. We also do a lot of picnics and Disney movie nights. I just love being home with no one else around except my family. Solo time rarely exists for me. I need to make more time for that because I need it.

She Keeps Going And Going …

Surprisingly, I don’t drink coffee. I actually found out recently I am allergic to it. I love tea – either iced green or hot with honey, lemon and a little whole milk. I start every day with a green smoothie that gets me going. Here’s what’s in it (all organic):
•1 head of romaine lettuce
•1/2 bundle of spinach
•3 celery stalks
•1 apple
•1 pear
•1 banana
•1 teaspoon bee pollen
•1 tablespoon chia seeds
•Pinch of cardamom
•Couple drops of rose water
•Juice of ½ a lemon
•Small bunch of cilantro
•Small bunch of parsley

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Kids Incorporated

I love kids fashion. My grandmother actually has a children’s clothing boutique called Shannon and Co. that she’s had for 30 years. Every summer, we would go to La Jolla to visit and work in her store. My mom and I also had a children’s boutique before I had kids called Smooch, so it’s kind of in our blood. Now that Kim and I are moms, it just made sense. It’s for girls 0 to 24 months, but don’t worry, boys is in the works!

Head Designer

I took the reigns on the first collection because we started designing it ages ago before Kim was even pregnant. I thought about my favorite pieces, things that I would change or items that didn’t exist that I was always looking for. I got a biker jacket for Penelope as a gift and it’s real leather and amazing but it’s just not the most practical piece, so we made a version for the latest collection that’s really soft, thin and lightweight so it’s great for layering.

Photo Courtesy of The Coveteur / Trunk Archive

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On Our Radar: December 19, 2014

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(Product)Red Aden + Anais Swaddles
WHO: Expecting moms who want to make a statement and a difference.
WHAT: Profits from this jazzy Aden + Anais 3-pack of swaddles – designed by Rachel Zoe, Jessica Alba, and Gwen Stefani – go to Global Fund to help fight AIDS.
WHEN: Limited supply, so get them while you can. Makes a great gift (hint hint).
WHERE: adenandanais.com

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Pure Brazilian Coconut Water
WHO: Anyone looking for a refreshing beverage, especially if you’re sick, nauseous, or hungover.
WHAT: New raw, artisanal coconut water is made from only Anão coconuts from Brazil, unlike its mass-produced counterparts. You can taste the difference.
WHEN: When you’re thirsty.
WHERE: purebraziliancoconutwater.com

Town and Country Diaper Tote
WHO: Parents who are a little bit (or lotta bit) preppy.
WHAT: The Town and Country Baby Tote takes the classic tote and adds a brilliant insert turning it into the perfect diaper bag, complete with monogram.
WHEN: Before you register for some sad chevron number.
WHERE: townandcountrybabytote.com

Stay + Co Baby
WHO: Parents of stylish babes.
WHAT: Cute, comfy layette in simple stripes and camo from two SoCal moms who needed a creative outlet.
WHEN: Naptime and playtime.
WHERE: stay-and-co.com

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Within 2 minutes of chatting with Shoshanna Gruss, we were smitten. She’s warm, kind, real, honest, funny, and a successful entrepreneur who’s managed to find true balance in her life. But then she told us about her daughter Sienna and their impromptu girls trip to New Orleans, and we almost ditched on the designer to hang with her. “She’ll eat anything, try anything, loves museums, and is always down to explore.” And she’s in a band. She’s nine.

But back to our mom-crush. The mother of 3 (aforementioned Sienna; twins Colby and Angelica are 2) runs a business, sees her friends (albeit not as often as she’d like), takes her daughter to school (and picks her up) every day, reads an occasional book, and travels (with and without kids). She’s the quintessential role model for entrepreneur moms, and we say that without even the slightest eyeroll.

Besides overseeing her eponymous fashion line (that’s been around for 17 years!), she’s also the Style Director at Elizabeth Arden, where she collaborates on the design of new products and acts as a spokesperson for the brand. And speaking of collaborating, Sienna has helped design suits for the babygirl swim: “She’s more rock-n-roll than I am, so our stuff is a little too girly for her. I let her help, and her designs have been best-sellers!”

She talked openly with us about her difficulty getting pregnant both times (the 7-year age difference wasn’t “the plan”), and her good fortune of having 3 healthy kids is not lost on her – her gratefulness is palpable. She’s also shared tips for twins parents, her secret to staying organized, and her terrifying #momfail we give her kudos for sharing.

Meet the smart, beautiful, down-to-earth Shoshanna Gruss.

She’s With The Band

Sienna sings and plays keyboard and drums in a band. Currently she’s in a Rolling Stones cover band with the School of Rock, but her old band, Kings of Brooklyn, played at the Bitter End – it was such a proud moment!

Colby strums away on his ukulele all day long. Some people are born with this.

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Out Of Your Control

Anjelica, on the other hand, is going to be an ultimate fighting champion – she’s very physical. I was an athlete and was the same way as a child. My mom is the most refined elegant woman but was a wild animal as a child. You gotta celebrate the kid you got, not try and make them into what you want them to be!

Meaningful Names

My kids are all named after grandparents who have passed away. It’s such a nice Jewish tradition to name kids after family members who are no longer with us. When they ask why they have their name, it keeps you talking about people who were loved and special so they feel that connection.

Winter Babies

The twins were born in November during the coldest winter ever, and I’m a secret hermit so we were shut-ins for the first year, and I didn’t feel guilty about it. No one loves a snowstorm more than me – I love being trapped in the house , so it was a perfect year for me!

Twins Must-Have

The City Select Twin Jogger is the perfect twin stroller. They can face front and back, facing each other or not – you can coordinate it a million different ways. It’s easier to have them front and back so you don’t take up the whole sidewalk, and they enjoy it.

Twins Tips

Don’t buy 2 of everything! They only want whatever thing the other is playing with – it’s not about the toy itself. He loves cars and trucks, and she likes to beat him up – whatever he has in his hand, she wants.

Don’t compare them. She is physical, verbal, and jealous; he is totally laid back. They never hit milestones at the same time. It’s a fascinating study of gender.

The Struggle

Sienna is 9 and the twins are 2 – that was not our family plan. It was hard for me to get pregnant both times, so instead of seeing anything as a negative, I am just so grateful that I have 3 healthy kids. The long road has made me never sweat the small stuff because I know how lucky I am.

Perspective

It’s almost a beautiful age difference because Sienna grew up with just us for so many years, and now the twins are as well. I’ve been the young mommy and the old mommy. I was always so nervous with Sienna, but I am less so with the twins. All the things I have watched some super successful type-A moms stress over – getting into the right schools and making straight A’s – I don’t fret about that stuff. My only goal is to keep my children healthy and happy. You have to find your child’s strengths and help them feel good about that, and instill confidence in the places where they aren’t excelling, all while allowing them to be themselves.

How She Does It

I am a super organized person, and I have to write everything down, like with pen and paper. I use a paper calendar, and I have all of them from the last 20 years – they are so helpful with remembering things!

I am committed to dropping Sienna off and picking her up every day at 2:30pm from school. I’ve had my business for 17 years, so it runs like a machine. What suffers is my social life – I see my friends a few times a month, and I plan it in advance (it’s all about being a planner). I have really great help and the women I work with are incredible and the reason I get to be the kind of mom I want to be.

Her Style

I wear a uniform: a Chinti & Parker sweater or Steven Alan button-down, high-waisted skinny jeans (either Citizens or Sevens – I love the high-waisted are flattering and nothing sticks out), and Supergas. I feel casual enough to get on floor with the kids but pulled together enough for work.

The Hardest Part

I struggle with letting them be independent and giving them space to grow. When I see them try something and not succeed right away, my instinct is to go and do it for them, but they need to figure things out on their own sometimes. That’s hard for me.

Biggest Fashion Pet Peeve

That trying too hard look: I see these NY women wearing the highest heels and the tightest pants, and it makes me uncomfortable for them. Comfort, grace, and elegance are so appealing. I like people to express themselves and the non-creativity in that look bums me out.

Ahhhhhhhhhhh

To unwind, I love to listen to that flutey spa music, put my face in a pillow, and lay there and drift off at night. I would love to find more time to read (there are 30 books next to my bed), but I am so tired!

I did just read I Am Having So Much Fun Here Without You and Warpaint, about the Elizabeth Arden-Helena Rubinstein rivalry – their stories are fascinating. I get super obsessed with women who have broken boundaries like they did.

My fantasy is to be on a beach with sea glass and beautiful shells, a chair, my flutey music, a beachcomber, and a reader – if anyone wants to give me a present!

Last Purchase

I have a thing with chromatic color, and Solange did this Chromance collection of multi-colored stones – it was a real gift to myself. Women, in general, are not as giving to themselves as men, but I’m changing that!

Secret Obsession

I torture Sienna with crafts like making friendship bracelets, and she is not into it like I am! I love to bake, paint, and make stuff. I have a sketchbook of stuff I have cut out and glued in: things that inspire me, places I want to go. I just took Sienna to New Orleans, and we had the best time. That’s what life is all about.

#Momfail

When Sienna was little, I was holding her on my hip and gabbing away on the phone, not paying close attention to her. She had pulled a knife out of the woodblock and was holding it over herself, and I smiled and slowly just grabbed it from her, praying she didn’t drop it. Then I moved the woodblock to the other side of the kitchen… and started breathing again.

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