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When we caught up with Jordana Brewster, fresh on the heels of filming season three of Dallas and getting ready to shoot The Fast & The Furious 7, she was as grounded as we’d heard (no makeup! in public!). Not that she doesn’t work for it, “I’m very passionate about constantly working on myself, whether it be through therapy, meditation or self help books.” The mother of eight-month-old Julian – who grew up in Panama City, Brazil and NYC and now lives in Santa Monica – has an adorable practice with her two best friends: “We email each other a gratitude list at the end of the day. Every day. Shifting your perspective is so important!”

Toys Schmoys

Take things you already have around the house — a rock, pine cone, paper towel tube — and put them in a bowl or basket for your baby to play with. They love the different textures and once they tire of one, they move on to the next. You don’t even need traditional toys. Next up is edible paint, but he’s not old enough yet. I love The Imagination Tree website for this kind of thing!

Clothes Make The Baby

I’m obsessed with Petit Bateau and Nununu baby clothes, especially Nununu’s pants. Some days Julian’s style is very hipster/skater, and others I dress him like Prince George: a little gentleman.

Be Present

There’s no such thing as multitasking as a mom – if you’re answering emails, you aren’t giving the baby the attention he needs. I’m trying to be more mindful and setting aside time to devote myself to work so I can give him my full attention when I am with him. It’s a work in progress. I meditate twice a day to resist the urge!

Lifesaving Baby Products

For the first 6 months, the Nuna Leaf saved me. I loved that it’s not motorized, Julian found it so soothing and I had my hands free for a short while. Now he wants to be held at all times, but it was great while it lasted. Also the Baby Shusher is a genius invention. At first it felt really lazy, but all that shushing is exhausting! There’s also an app, which I used after I dropped and broke the actual shusher. Oh, and buy the NoseFrida. It’s so convenient and surprisingly addictive.

Skip It

Diaper bags are overrated. I just throw a Bambo diaper, Naty wipes, one toy and a sippy cup in my purse.

Insider Tricks

Find a pediatrician that answers emails or texts. It gives me so much peace of mind to be able to get timely answers without having to take the baby to the doctor. Also, I constantly start email chains with my mom friends about any question I have and they always ease my worries and have good advice.

Truth

I thought I would be this zen earth mama, but I am more paranoid about things than I used to be. People say that once you become a mom you’ll know exactly what to do, but that isn’t necessarily true. I find myself more anxious than before.

A Bag of Tricks

I was shooting Dallas in Texas and traveled back and forth 10 times with Julian. The trick is to give a bottle on the way up and down and to have a bag of tricks. You’re basically an entertainer for the whole plane ride, so pull one toy out at a time and let him play with it until he gets bored. You have to switch up what’s in the bag every trip too.

Hey, Jules

My husband and I had differing opinions on names but out of the blue one day, he said I love the name Jules. And I loved it too. And there we had it.

#Momfail

One day, Julian ate a leaf and then puked it up shortly thereafter. That’s when I realized I have to have my eyes on him at all times.

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On Our Radar: January 30, 2015

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Buggy Buttons
WHO: Parents who don’t want to wake a sleeping baby but must transport them to the car seat.
WHAT: Clamps attach to either side of the car seat to hold the straps out of the way, so when you place a sleeping little in it, you don’t wake them by fidgeting with straps underneath their tooshie. Doubles as a toy!
WHEN: If you haul the babe in the car a lot, immediately.
WHERE: squishandasqueeze.com

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Rylee + Cru
WHO: Parents with a California boho sense of style.
WHAT: New line of baby and toddler basics made in LA is made of super-soft slub jersey cotton and comes in sweet vintage-inspired prints (think swans and bunnies) in muted hues.
WHEN: Right about now.
WHERE: ryleeandcru.com

Biobu Kids Dinnerware
WHO: Parents of toddlers who are seriously anti-plastic.
WHAT: Chic dish sets for kids are made of biodegradable bamboo fiber with a 100% food-grade melamine binder, and are BPA-, PVC- and Phthalate-free. (And no, they’re not microwave-safe but you should put plastic in the microwave anyway!)
WHEN: Before dinner.
WHERE: unisonhome.com

Storq Body
WHO: Pregnant and nursing women who want safe but effective beauty products.
WHAT: Storq’s done the research, you just stay fresh and clean – knowing the shampoo/conditioner, belly balm, soap, and deodorant is EWG-approved.
WHEN: Like now.
WHERE: storq.com

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We knew we were in for an honest heart-to-heart when Katia Beauchamp announced she had to pump during our interview. She’s the co-founder of the brillz beauty business Birchbox, which delights its subscribers every month with a delivery of trial-size beauty products tailored to their needs. It’s a win for brands (that exposure!) and you, since you’ll discover your new fav product without having to buy a full-size bottle.

The West Texas native (clear eyes, full hearts, y’all!) has been doing quite a lot of discovery herself recently: She gave birth to twin boys, Alec and Guy 8 months ago.

Katia’s finding her way in the working mom world, but she has a bone to pick with some other moms, “Everybody tries to make pregnancy and motherhood seem so easy. But it’s hard. And just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it isn’t awesome and amazing. I wish more women would be honest about that.”

Read on for straight talk including, yes, beauty must-haves, as well as life-saving baby products, and much more.

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Truth About Multiples

Having twins is such a blessing, but it’s so important to find other moms with them – otherwise you feel like an alien! Nursing two is a whole different ballgame. Same goes for sleep training. I found my people through the Manhattan Twins Club. It’s such an active community: you put questions up there and people respond with great advice.

Life Savers

I’m obsessed with Wubanubs [the pacifier with a small “lovey” attached]. Initially I didn’t realize how helpful it is to have those stuffed animals on them – it helps them grab it themselves and find it in the middle of the night. I call it their wub instead of their paci.

I’m still using the Zipadee-Zip, a Shark Tank product that’s similar to a swaddle but still safe for babies to wear once they can roll over.

Obsessed

As a brand, I have been really impressed with Babybjörn. We use the bouncer, travel crib, and high chair, and I’m blown away by the design. I am so brand loyal because they are so thoughtful about how they make their products. My boys sit in that bouncer forever. The high chair is so sleek and easy to use but doesn’t take up space. And the playard is totally lightweight and easy to transport and they LOVE it.

How She Does It

I have an amazingly helpful husband who was born to be a father. We divide our responsibilities, besides nursing of course. We have an incredible nanny who quickly became part of our family. She started as our baby nurse, and I begged her to become our nanny. She loves the boys so much and cares for them so thoughtfully. It allows me to go to work and disconnect from home with complete peace of mind.

Great Nanny Tip

Our nanny stays over 2 nights a week – it allows us to have a date night, and we can each have a work commitment. It’s also 2 mornings that I don’t have to get up, so I get a really solid night’s sleep. Game changer.

Beauty 180

I have never been obsessive about ingredients, but I started paying a lot more attention when I got pregnant and changed everything. There aren’t a lot of truly organic, natural make-up brands out there, but W3ll People is such a fun brand. They are beautiful and such great products. For skincare I am so passionate about Tata Harper – I could see a difference in a week. I am so fastidious about skincare and am a diehard believer in her products.

Top 3 Beauty Products

1. Tata Harper Resurfacing Mask (You can sleep in it.)
2. W3ll People Multi-Use Color Stick (I love this.)
3. Oribe Apres Beach Spray (I just cut my hair off, and it’s been amazing for styling it.)

Baby Beauty

I’m so minimalistic about what I put on the boys. Sometimes I just use warm water so their natural oils can do their thing. Honest’s products are really nice, and I use Aquaphor as a diaper cream.

Morning Routine

I wake up, nurse the babies, and play with them for 30 minutes – they are so happy in the morning! It’s our special time. Then I take a shower when the nanny arrives. I run around in various states of being dressed and play with them again and again. Then I say bye 10 times before I finally leave. It’s so hard!

Just STOP

Pregnancy and motherhood is a whole shift in your life, and whatever you were doing before kids is still important to you, and balancing that is really challenging. I wish more women would be open to a conversation that we are going through this together as mothers.

Unwind

I have not been great at doing things for myself since the boys were born. I haven’t exercised much, and I did before them – I don’t have the energy or even want to right now. Cooking brings me joy, and I don’t have time to really cook, but I love preparing a meal from Plated while having a glass of wine. That works for now!

Brilliant Post-Baby Fashion Tip

We’re going to the Grand Caymans with the babies soon, and I needed a bathing suit that covers the dark line below my belly button that hasn’t faded yet. I found high-waisted on-trend bathing suits at Urban Outfitters that cover the line and are so cute!

Perfect Moments

Every morning, the 4 of us snuggle, laugh, and sing in our bed after I have fed the babies. It’s dark in our room and totally blissful!

3 Hours Alone, No Work, No Family

How many things can I do in 3 hours? I’d definitely go to a Soul Cycle class, then go on a meandering walk, stumble into a cafe for lunch with a friend, followed up by an afternoon cocktail. That sounds so delightful!

Secret Talent

I make amazing homemade salsa. I’m from Texas, and my mom’s Mexican, so I have that in my blood! The key is to roast the jalapeno on an open flame on the stove and everything else has to be super fresh fresh. People come over, eat it, and think you are a goddess.

The Name Game

Guy is a family name on my husband’s side. I wanted a name from my side of the family – my dad is Greek and I wanted a greek name, but Alecos sounds weird with our last name, so we went with Alec. His middle name is Austin, where I was born.

#Momfail

I was in my business partner’s wedding 2 months after the boys were born. First of all, we were driving upstate and realized one ZipCar was not enough to haul all our stuff and had to get a second. We get to the rehearsal dinner (they kindly included the boys), so we put them in white linen overalls from Paris, which were SO cute, and wouldn’t ya know it – diarrhea explosion! And yes, my husband got poop on his clothes too.

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Gift Guide

Before kids, Valentine’s Day was sort of a downer: You were either single and at home watching bad TV alone (man, that sounds like heaven), or you’re out with your S.O. having a cheesy prix-fixe meal – and slightly humiliated by it (gee, thanks hunny).

But once you have littles, it becomes a favorite holiday – there’s nothing better than explaining “love” to a toddler. Plus it’s a perfect excuse to buy heart-themed prezzies.

These are the ones we want. Mwah!

Bouquet

$35

Urban Stems

Heart Sunglasses

$16

Urban Outfitters

Jonathan Adler Heart Pillow

$165

Diapers

Scattered Hearts Scarf

$148

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Ruby Heart Ring

$3,000

Sarah Hendler

Angel Skin Heart & Arrow Studs

$595

Finn Jewelry

Stripe & Heart Sweater

$198

Amber Hagen

Gold Heart Eternity Band

$220

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John Derian Shooting Arrow Tray

$110

John Derian

Heart Spatulas

$11

Huset

Hearts Back-Up Charger

$30

Ban.do

Spa Collection

$72

Herbivore Botanicals

Dyptique Rosafolia Candle

$65

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Kiss, Kiss Postcard Set

$7

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Edie Parker Heart Clutch

$1,295

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Heart Wall Stickers

$21

Design Public

I Heart Color Doll

$25

Sophie & Lili

Kiss Hair Clips

$12

Hello Shiso

Conversation Heart Rings

$3

Shop Sweet Lulu

Milk & Heart Cookies Kit

$23

Acme

Pink Acoustic Guitar

$44

Cricket’s Circle

Wood Stacking Hearts

$46

Romp

Love Notes Mailbox

$20

PB Kids

Hearts & Arrows Card Kit

$13

Shop Sweet Lulu

Personalized Heart Apron

$19

PB Kids

Selima Heart Sunglasses

$55

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Heart Elbow Sweater

$68

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Llama Llama I Love You Book

$5

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Lips Sweatshirt

$39

Atsuyo Et Akiko

Love Burnout Tee

$44

Darling Clementine

Kiwi Crate Card Kit

$15

Kiwi Crate

Radio Flyer Spin N Saucer

$25

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Playforever Racecar

$40

My Sweet Muffin

Maroon Bow Tie

$22

Little Skye

Oeuf VW Bug

$68

Alex & Alexa

Stella McCartney Heart Tee

$25

Alex & Alexa

Love Notes Mailbox

$20

PB Kids

Heart Scarf

$20

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Elmo’s Valentine Book

$4

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Heart Teether

$12

Little Sapling Toys

Sweet Hearts Grasping Toy

$15

Romp

Heartbreaker Onesie

$20

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Heart Hat & Mittens

$25

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Heart Tights

$5

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I’m So Glad You’re Here Giant Book

$100

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Heart Diaper Cover

$17

PB Kids

Love Blanket

$40

PB Kids

Heart Onesie

$23

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