Jaime King

Short answers from Hart of Dixie Actress: Jaime King

Jaime King has a ritual after she wraps a work project: She beelines it to Skywalker Ranch. George Lucas’s private resort is sort of her spirit home; the rugged Northern Cal landscape suits her outdoorsy side. Plus, she’s a second-generation Star Wars die-hard. Which you wouldn’t necessarily guess about the former model who spent her teens palling around with Karl Lagerfeld and Tom Ford. The latest trip to the Ranch (memorialized with an Instagram none of us at CC HQ can get over) was to recover from the third season of Hart of Dixie, a rigorous season joyfully interrupted by the arrival of baby James Knight, now almost 7 months old.

We chatted about the jolt of returning to set, the baby products she lives for (there’s a lot) and her five-part method for obliterating teething pain. Dr. Jaime King is in the house!

don't take it lightly
Godparents are a big deal. They’re not picked at random because they’re your bestie or because it’d be cool to have a fellow actor as your godparent. I picked Jessica [Alba] because if anything happened to us, I know she’d take care of James Knight the way we would.

topher grace, surrogate dad
My husband [director Kyle Newman] was away filming during my pregnancy. Together we thought about who would be his surrogate if I went early, and I chose Topher [Grace] because he’s very similar to Kyle – traditional and artistic, family focused. He’s reliable and trustworthy. Both me and my husband consider him a best friend, which is really special. When Kyle was gone, Topher would take me out for ice cream.

avert your eyes
I was in labor for 26 hours. My friends saw things that friends should never see. But that’s what friends are for, right?

back on set
I returned to work at 6 weeks. I’d be up all night breastfeeding and up at 4am to go to set, shooting 12-16 hours a day and running off to feed the baby. I felt like I was leading a double life; a consummate professional and a hormonal mess wanting my husband and baby. What got me through? My child. And Rachel Bilson, she was just so loving and happy for me.

It’s been interesting to watch my husband “learn the baby”. He came back home and was so “game on” about it. There was no grand revelation about watching Kyle become a father; I always knew he’d be that way. But I love watching him step into the fullness of fatherhood.

tossing out the plan
We all have a lot of grand plans about our pregnancy and delivery. People would ask me about my preferences or my birth plan, but all I cared about was that the baby was happy and healthy. I’d see other women who wanted a natural birth or to breastfeed and when things didn’t go as planned, they’d judge themselves. It’s the same with childhood. It doesn’t matter how you want to raise your kid but that you are conscious in your choice to be loving, responsible, giving, caring and sharing and raise your kid to be the same.

kids say the darndest things
I’m concerned about raising a kid here [in Beverly Hills]. When I was young, if I didn’t have the Esprit top, it was a travesty. Now kids ask, “do your parents fly private?” It’s a whole new crazy level of comparisons that I don’t want my son subjected to. But I have to roll with it.

baby on board
We do lots of walking and hiking and incorporate him into our everyday lives, rather than changing our whole existence for him. My husband loves to watch soccer games, so, the guys come over and we put him in the BabyBjorn seat and they hang out and have fun. If we have friends who aren’t so into the baby, they come over when he goes down.

jaime king, teething expert
For teething I have what we call the “dentist’s office” bag. Amber necklaces. Hyland’s teething tablets. Camila homeopathic drops. These clove pods with a little Q-tip to rub gums. Together, it’s a magical combination!  And, if your baby won’t take the bottle because his gums hurt, fill a bottle with 4 oz water, then turn it upside down in the freezer, the water freezes in the nipple and the baby will gum it, and it numbs his gums and he’ll take a bottle!

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Dana Avidan-Cohn
Weekdays: Scarsdale, NY
Weekends: Litchfield County, CT
Family: Dan, sons Nash, 3.5 and Carter, 23 months
You might know: Her excellent taste. She’s the InStyle Senior Market Editor & Digital Correspondent.
Secret obsession: YA fiction (It’s so entertaining!)




My older son Nash usually wakes up first and I hear the same thing every morning: “Moooommmy come and get me I’m awaaa—-aake.” I don’t budge.


That usually wakes up baby C, and then Dan goes into their room and is greeted with mild wrong-parent-disappointment that quickly dissipates upon the promise of some outlandish but spectacular breakfast.


Dan and the boys are on the couch watching SportsCenter.  Every dish in the kitchen has been used for breakfast. Every food product we have has been used for breakfast. The kitchen is a modern art exhibit of toppled furniture, yogurt graffiti, dish statues, and half-had beverages.


I come downstairs well-rested and excited for the day. I give the boys kisses (which they half acknowledge amidst the sports highlights). I hi-five Dan for letting me sleep in and set about rebuilding the kitchen over some coffee and music.


I realize that both kids are covered in remnants of breakfast so we decide swimming is the easiest way to tire them out and clean them off.


They are out of the water and taking out the soccer goal to play some “Sock.” We have spent a lot of time and money on toys to keep them engaged but NOTHING has been better than a $40 pop up soccer goal.


We take them into town for some lunch. I love a sandwich shop lunch with kids because it’s low key and it doesn’t matter if they aren’t perfectly behaved. My boys split a wrap with chicken, avocado and honey mustard and two fresh juices.


There is an amazing local chocolate shop that makes everything you can imagine for kids. The glass case is covered in little fingerprints. Nash orders a dark chocolate screwdriver (they have a whole toolbox selection) and C wants the same. By the time we get back to the house, it’s melted all over them and they are asking if we can go back and get more.


The DOUBLE nap!!!! Dan and I lay out and read for 2 hours of peaceful heaven.


Grandparents offer to get the kids from their nap, so we go for a quick run and workout. Even when I am exhausted I always feel so much better afterwards. We make smoothies as a snack. This is one of their favorites:

  •          1 cup frozen blueberries
  •          Ice (optional)
  •          1 cup pomegranate juice
  •          2 tablespoons wheat germ
  •          1/4 cup almonds
  •          1 avocado, pitted and peeled

*Makes about 12 ounces, which could serve two little ones


We are back on the dock with both boys in Puddle Jumper Delux swimmies. We take them out on the stand-up paddleboard or in a canoe.


Dan takes out the fishing rod. If they catch something, they look at it and let it go. Nash thinks it’s the same fish every time — he calls him “BOBO” (who is a bass).


We make pizzas outside in a little outdoor wood oven and the boys help put on the cheese and sauce. They love baking and cooking.


After dinner they get a bath and put on pjs. Carter calls all of the pjs “yucky” and “gross” and only wants to wear something with a truck on it.

Then I let them pick out as many books as they want, and we read them all. They are finally tired. Dan and I divide and conquer and put them to bed. I have yet to stay awake while doing this.


Dan wakes me up and we go downstairs for dinner and drinks. Usually a cold rose for me and a martini for D. These weekends with them are the most fun and exhausting days I have ever had. Working full time makes the weekends very precious so I try to really soak up the chaos.

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On Our Radar: July 24, 2014



WHO: Baby Lit’s new board books let you introduce the classics before she can even talk.
WHAT: Jane Austen and Shakespeare for the baby-set.
WHEN: Nothing says bedtime like Goodnight, Mr. Darcy.
WHERE: babylit.com


WHO: HoneyBee Child SwingEase turns a regular old swing into a baby / toddler swing.
WHAT: The smart design also folds up so you can stash away in the diaper bag.
WHEN: 6-36 months, under 40 pounds.
WHERE: honeybeechild.com

WHO: Life In Play’s Organizer turns any handbag into a diaper bag.
WHAT: Thanks to Kickstarter, the days of having to buy a less-than-stylish diaper bag are numbered.
WHEN: Pre-order now, receive it in October.
WHERE: lifeinplaycompany.com

WHO: Polagram app allows you to order prints of photos/Instas, and they arrive super fast via the post office, so you can enjoy IRL.
WHAT: That’s. So. Meta.
WHEN: Past, present, and future become one.
WHERE: apple.com

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Step-By-Step Transition To A Big-Kid Bed

Everyone knows the cardinal rule of infant slumber – never (ever) wake a sleeping baby.

We’d like to propose an amendment: never (ever) rush the transition of that sleeping baby from their happy crib to a big-kid bed. One cannot overstate the value of a child who sleeps unstirred through the night.

How do you know when it’s time to say “buh-bye” to the crib?


You need the crib for #2

Leave yourself plenty of time to make the transition before your new arrival makes an appearance. Too much change all at once (new sibling, new bed, new room) is never easy – no matter your age.



If Junior is climbing his way out every night – it’s not safe to keep him behind bars any longer.


More space, please.

While we’ve known littles who have slept in their crib until age 4, we also know not-so-littles who needed more room to spread out. You know your kid’s limbs best – trust your instincts.


So, you’ve decided it’s time to transition. Now what?

If you purchased a convertible crib, you’re in luck. Simply convert to a toddler bed. Toddler beds use the same mattress and sheets as your crib. Most come with attachments that serve as a bed rail. All you need to add is a pillow.


Toddler Pillows

Don’t go for extra fluffy – the smaller the better. Remember they’ve been resting their head flat on the mattress happily for quite some time.
See our picks >


Toddler Bed Sheet Sets

Pre-packaged sets come with fitted and top sheets. Our recommendation: hold off on the top sheet until he’s got the sleeping in one place thing down. We spent the first few weeks detangling our sleeper from the unnecessary layer of fabric. See our picks >

If the crib doesn’t convert, how do you choose what’s next: a toddler bed or a twin/double?


If space is an issue

consider a toddler bed. They’re close to the ground (in case of falls) and the abbreviated height makes purposeful departures
(i.e. midnight potty breaks) easier to accomplish. They also use the same size mattress as a crib, so there’s no need to add that to the tab. See our picks >


However, if you have the space

to go big – do it. This will be your kiddo’s bed for the foreseeable future. For a regular bed (twin or double), you need a bed rail. Try and position the bed with one side against a wall – this will minimize sides your sleeper can slip off of. If the bed doesn’t work against a wall, you will need two rails. See our pick >


we opted to not use rails

and lined the ground beside our kiddo’s twin bed with bean bags that we repurposed in the playroom after falling out of bed was no longer an issue.
And, of course you’ll need new sheets. Let your little help you pick the designs to get them excited about the change. Some of our favorites: Little Auggie, Mia & Finn, Dwell Studio, Unison Home, Biscuit Home.

- The Extras -

1. If you have stairs and haven’t gated them yet, now is the time. Munchkin, KidCo and Summer Infant are all reliable brands whose sites walk you through finding the right solution for your space.

2. Add a nightlight in the hallway and the bathroom, so independent littles can make their way to the bathroom in the dark. We’re drawn to these kitschy versions of a gummy bear or kitty cat. Or you could go all out (it doubles as a piece of art!) with Mr. Maria’s giant bunny.

3. Teach them when to stay in bed and when to rise with a nifty nightlight clock. It’s About Time, Nuk, KID’Sleep, Onaroo, and GoodNite Lite are all good options.

4. Don’t make any changes to their bedtime routine. Keep nightlight, sound machines, woobies, and rules consistent.

And hope for the best.

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