cc_ivanka_headercc_blog_spacerWhen I first met Ivanka in a baby music class with her daughter Arabella and my son Griffin, she was, like all of us, in the throes of early parenting.  A friend organized this “pre-crawlers” class for a handful of working moms before we headed to the office for the day.

In between Itsy Bitsy Spider and “tummy time” we’d commiserate that we were lost and just making it up as we went along. At the end, we’d slip on our shoes on and head out – some back home, some to offices and Ivanka to her her position directing the real estate concerns of Trump International. No big deal.

She recalls of the time, “I was extremely tired, stressed and unable to find balance.” She credits her husband Jared Kushner with talking her off the ledge. “The reality is that a lot of people do this [parenting], and most people not too terribly,” she says. “At the time, of course, I was highly dismissive of all his advice!”

Fast forward 2 years and twice the kids and twice the professional commitments – she juggles essentially two day jobs, one at the family business and one growing her namesake lifestyle brand, which sells everything from footwear to fragrances to furniture. New baby Joseph arrived this past October. But the stress is gone. “We’ve found a nice rhythm,” she says. “There’s something civilized about having at least one child that’s not in diapers.” Take one look at her Instagram – she’s a changed woman. You can’t fake this kind of confidence.

Time passes, it gets easier, and we all find a few tricks that work.  Here, Ivanka shares hers. Take note!  — Rachel
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For household projects I have to do anyway, I try to include Arabella. She helped me design the nursery. She “picked” the paint color – from colors I already liked. And she chose the sheets – I was going to buy both sets anyway!

cc_blog_ivanka_tips_2I’m a big believer that kids love familiarity and traditions. So we have “anchors” – every morning, I’m the first person she sees. We play, we eat breakfast, we’ll read our papers. Me, the newspaper, she, National Geographic Kids. Most of the week I succeed in getting home to spend 6:30-7:30 with her before bedtime. We cuddle, read, and I chase her around the house. Then I go back to work or I go out.
cc_blog_ivanka_tips_3Amazon for household items and groceries. Yahoo Weather because it’s beautiful and functional. Artkive to keep pictures of all of Arabella’s art projects.  You can arrange albums by child. I love it.
cc_blog_ivanka_tips_4With each child, I’ve shaved minutes off my morning routine. I don’t blow-dry my hair (it air dries as the kids get ready) or use any other products than dry shampoo. I also don’t wear much makeup.
cc_blog_ivanka_tips_5Every Friday we prepare a proper 3-course meal. I cook enough that we eat it the rest of the weekend! We keep Arabella’s play kitchen in our kitchen, so she cooks at her stove and I cook at mine. Arabella joins us for the beginning, but then it’s just me and Jared.

cc_blog_ivanka_tips_6I don’t take her out to a nice restaurant and expect her to sit still for two hours. She’s even-tempered, but she’s two. Instead, we’ll go to museums, at least she can walk around and explore.
cc_blog_ivanka_tips_7 Once a week Arabella comes to my office for a Wednesday lunch date. She loves it. I keep a doll in my office that joins us for lunch.  She enjoys visiting “office baby” as much as she does me. I order her salmon and she devours the bread rolls and I let her have  “pink” (strawberry) ice cream for dessert.
cc_blog_spacercc_ivanka_short_answers_v4 Toddler clothes: Zara clothing and Ivanka Trump kids footwear (launching this Spring)  Nursery decor: As impractical as it is I wanted an-all white nursery! I just painted the walls pink but I loved it while it lasted.  Beauty: Tammy Fender organic skin care products for me, The Honest Company products for Arabella and Joseph.  Stroller: Bugaboo and BabyJogger  Pump: Medela  Carrier: BabyBjorn  Bottles: Born Free  Shampoo & Bodywash: The Honest Company  Diaper bag: Skip Hop  Bibs: BabyBjorn  Diaper pail: Dekor  Swaddle: Summer Infant

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Alice and Olivia founder Stacey Bendet Eisner is proud of the fact that her girls never have “typical” days. She’s constantly seeking out new creative activities for her two girls – Eloise, 5 and Scarlett, 3. What’s on her roster of musts? She opened her little black book to the best playgrounds, camps, and family entertainment in her home bases of Manhattan and Malibu.

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CMA in SoHo is a hands-down favorite for family time.


Brunch at the Soho House.

The playgrounds down by Battery Park

Ballet classes at the Joffrey School

Gymnastics lessons at Chelsea Piers

Karma Kids Yoga

Brunch at Sarabeths in Tribeca

Trapeze school in Brooklyn

Bowling at Brooklyn Bowl

HiArts camp is amazing in the summer.

We love treats from Dominique Ansel.

Vegetarian food from Blossom

Smoothies from One Lucky Duck

Family dinners at Nobu

For a road trip, Weezee World in Chappaqua is amazing!

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We love art classes with B
Johnson
, who comes to our house in Malibu.


Swim lessons with Lori
Armstrong
(world’s best swim teacher)
Contact: 310-457-4574

Pony camp at Cross Creek

Dance camp with Miss Charissa.

Weekends at the Malibu
Farmers Market
for flowers,
organic treats and amazing
baskets from the Kenyan
weaving artisans.

We love the beach at Little
Dume
.

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Thanks, but no thanks:

Breastfeeding Advice
to Ignore

You’d think breastfeeding would be a sacred art seamlessly passed down from generation to generation. Nope. It’s surprisingly a tricky business rife with old wives’ tales and outdated advice.

We asked lactation consultant Quetzal Currie, LM, IBCLC (who’s seen it all after 16 years in the business) for the most common tips doled out by well-meaning moms, grandmas, and sister-in-laws you can politely ignore.

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The Tip:



Rub lanolin on your nipples



The Truth:


Slippery nipples can actually make it harder for baby to get a deep latch, and some little ones don’t like the taste/texture. Plus if your nips are cracking, slathering them in goopy wax will keep them too moist to heal. Instead, speed the healing process by dabbing a saline solution (8 oz. water + ¼ tsp. salt) on nipples after nursing, exposing them to air as much as possible (read: go topless), and using breast shells under clothes.


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The Tip:



Don’t use a paci



The Truth:


In general it’s best to wait 4-6 weeks, but there are lots of exceptions. Some babies have powerful sucking reflexes and aren’t happy unless they’re sucking on something—if you’re not having latch issues, it’s totally fine to opt for a binky ASAP instead of becoming a human pacifier.


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The Tip:



It’s just going to hurt—until you develop calluses



The Truth:


Yes, it’s going to be uncomfortable at first. And it will get easier as baby’s mouth grows (not because your nipples get tougher). But you shouldn’t be bleeding or having persistent pain after the first few days. Don’t grin and bear it; that’s a sign you need help with the latch.


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The Tip:



She’s eating so often! (said judgily)



The Truth:


Older generations, especially those who formula-fed exclusively, may hint that babies should be put on a schedule. Currie advises nursing when baby is hungry, or as she says, “on demand—within reason.” Shoot for 15-30 minute feedings every 2-3 hours, but be flexible.


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The Tip:



You’ll get more sleep if you nurse lying down



The Truth:


Yeah, good luck with that. Currie considers it an “advanced technique” and a recipe for a shallow latch and sore nips. Until you’re a pro, sit upright in a comfortable chair, and strap on a My Brest Friend pillow (better for keeping baby at the right angle than the mushier Boppy). If your baby is flailing her arms, swaddle her first; you can always do skin-to-skin after nursing.


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The Tip:



Get baby on a bottle ASAP so Dad can bond – and help with feedings



The Truth:


Sweet sentiment, but don’t feel pressured. If you don’t have to pump, it’s best to wait 4-6 weeks, to avoid nipple confusion and overwhelming mom (she has enough going on as-is.) He’ll bond just fine while changing and swaddling the baby and taking care of you, thankyouverymuch.


Currie’s a baby and boob whisperer. To get in-person help in New York, Brooklyn, or New Jersey, email her at quetzalcurrie@gmail.com.

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21 Guilt-Free Educational Apps

Yep, there’s an app for that (and that and that and that). But only a handful are kid-friendly – and educator approved. We questioned three developmental experts – Dana Rosenbloom of Dana’s Kids and speech-language pathologists Jill Rappaport and Mara Cole – to find apps that entertain and educate kids from 12 months to 4 years old.

A few things to keep in mind:

1. Some are available in “lite” versions so you can try them before you buy.
2. The most value lies in apps that can engage toddlers one way and utilize different features for preschoolers.
3. Plan to participate with your child by following their lead to enhance the experience, especially early on.
4. Set limits from the beginning on when and how long kids can be on their tablet or phone.
5. For children under a year, limit exposure to just music and an occasional video.
6. Lead by example – if you don’t want your child using it incessantly, don’t do so in front of him.

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Vocabulary

Creativity

Learning the abc’s

Sorting, Classifying Skills

Shapes/Numbers/colors

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