Kelly and Norah wanted to help the organization grow, and the original founder handed it over to them so they could make it happen.
Good friends Jessica Alba and Nicole Richie attended their launch party to announce the “rebirth” of Baby2Baby. The following week a photo from the event appeared in US Weekly, and 2 days later, a rep from Huggies called to say they wanted to donate 100,000 diapers (finally proof that gossip rags aren’t all bad). According to Norah, “Diapers in our world are like gold. We had room for 20 diapers at the time, but we had to say yes, so that’s what we did!”
The badass moms were totally candid about their relationship (opposites attract!) and shared some eye-opening parenting tips, beauty products you need to know about, and the pros and cons of raising kids in LA.
Without further ado, meet Kelly Sawyer Patricof and Norah Weinstein.
Kelly: I call her lawyer face – that’s my nickname for her. She’s very detailed and wound up, and I’m more easygoing, and it just works.
Norah: We are very much a team but have very different personalities, and the combination is our greatest strength. We do most everything as a unit.
Best Part of Raising Kids in LA
Kelly: I’m from Vancouver, where it rains 11 months a year. LA weather is great – I love that you can swim on Christmas Day.
Norah: We use the beach as our playground. I grew up in NYC and love it, but it’s a really special thing to be outside year-round.
Worst Part of Raising Kids in LA
Kelly: I grew up in the suburbs in a village of 200 people with bears in the backyard – I wish my kids could experience some of that.
Norah: Driving them to the pediatrician after 4pm in traffic across the 405.
Managing It All
Kelly: Bulletproof coffee is my new morning obsession. It’s 2 cups of coffee, 2 tbsp butter, and 2 tbsp MCT oil – it’s supposed to give you energy throughout the day on an even keel. When it doesn’t, I fill in with green tea. I’m always going out and have lots of energy, so I think it works!
Norah: Because I value my work so much, it takes away some of the mom guilt for things I do miss. Plus, when my kids have days off, I bring them to work and they sort clothes – it’s such a great way to teach them about giving back.
How Baby2Baby Affects The Way You Parent
Kelly: We host monthly events for kids in our program where they receive gift bags of essentials. I go home from those, and if my kids whine, I turn into Mean Mommy: Do you know you have everything and some kids have nothing. It makes me drill it into them a bit. I’m so grateful for everything we have, and I’m instilling that in them. Kids learn by example, and I see it sinking in.
Norah: We deal every day with women juggling jobs and college courses with so few resources – they have to choose between food and diapers sometimes. I still buy my kids birthday presents, but I always follow it up with having them choose something they don’t play with anymore to give to Baby2Baby.
Kelly: I’m obsessed with Honest Healing Balm – I put it on my lips, eyelids, cheeks as highlighter, and on my kids for ouchies. I’m trying to use natural products, and Koh Gen Do lipsticks are sheer and wonderful. And you can be hungover and have 2 hours sleep and put on Biologique Recherche Creme VIP O2 mask and be dewy, fresh, and amazing 15 minutes later.
Norah: I love Lip Slip by Sara Happ, Restore by Francesca Paige (Kelly’s facialist who she introduced me to), and I’m addicted to blow dries with Madison McClaren at Meche Salon – they make my week better in every way! I also drink a bottle of pink lady apple Health-ade kombucha every day.
Kelly: I talk to my kids like I do anyone else (i.e. never talk down to them). They appreciate honesty. As they get older, I think it’s so important not to baby them. My 8-year old is having girl drama at school and she tells me everything because I talk to her like a human, and we have a great relationship. She confides in me.
Norah: I’ve got lunches down: I follow Weelicious, bought a Planetbox and focus on the aesthetic (almost always rainbow) – and my kids eat better.
Biggest Pet Peeve
Kelly: Norah tapping her pen on the desk. And Ugg boots out in public – it’s not snowing here!
Norah: Improper grammar makes me crazy.
Relax & Unwind
Kelly: I read myself to sleep every night. Otherwise my brain is whirling about with how many more kids I could help. That means my husband has to peel the book off my face every night.
Norah: I’m very wound up. I take a bath every night with Honest bubble bath (because both kids usually jump in at some point).
Kelly: I can play the spoons. I was born in England, and we lived above a pub so my dad taught me. It’s such a good party trick!
Norah: I’m really good at hula hoop.
Kelly: I hate to get up early, so I make my husband do the morning routine and breakfast. He does 6:30-8am and I do the rest of the day – that’s how we structure life.
Norah: My kids are horrible sleepers… and it might be because I still lie with them in their beds while they go to sleep.